I want to get serious for a moment.
I haven’t read what exactly was said about Kelly Clarkson, or what she said, but I saw the headline “She responds the fat shaming comments”.
Why are we fat shaming? I mean seriously, no person has to the right to down anyone else, myself included.
Since I love and trust you guys, I’m going to be real with you guys. I think I’ve mentioned being a big girl on here. I weigh 278. I’ve had the comments of “you’d be so much prettier if you lost weight”, “you are too young to have issues from obesity”, “you would be married by now if you lost weight”.
You know what? Fuck you. There are reasons for my weight. I can be an emotional eater at times, and anything can set it off. I have knee injuries from when I was I teen, that are effecting me now, and honestly, when I was smaller, I was told then, I was chubby. I don’t believe 135 was chubby. Never have, never will.
Here’s the thing, first person who is perfect, stand up and tell me what I should be doing. Yeah? Didn’t think so. I can fix my weight issues. Can you fix your stank ass personality? Can you fix the fact you are giving advice yet are alone?
Exactly. My point is, before you decide to ‘give advice’, check yourself first. No one of us our perfect, and I get that. I also know some medical professionals who aren’t so understanding either. Understand this, if you aren’t going to help the person lose it, shut the fuck up. You’re not help by saying ‘you’re clinically obese’.
Do you think fat people don’t know this? Please we know when we get dressed.
As for people who judge, or have nasty stuff to say, especially my skinnier counterparts, remember this, we can fix are fat issues. We are great people aside from that. Go eat a cheeseburger and remove yourself from my sight.
As a ‘plus size gal’ I get hit on just as much as you do. Why? because I’m fucking awesome, and I own that shit. Yes, I’m a work in progress in many ways, but what gets attention from others is I’m real about my issues. I don’t eat a salad and water when I go out, unless I want to. I’m not faking my hunger. If I want some wings and cheese fries, I’m getting it.
If you were a real female, you wouldn’t have to try hard. I don’t. Remember that before you fat shame. Remember, there are all kinds of reason a person could be overweight, and honestly it’s none of you fucking business.
To my big girls out there, stop taking it! Don’t be polite if someone is being ignorant about you being overweight. Rock the hell out of it! Let that person know, the mere fact you are so concerned with my weight thanks, but no one asked you. You don’t pay my bills, or live with me, so back off. We are trying but no one needs added pressure from others.
People please, really think about why you maybe ‘concerned’ with another’s weight. Show how self conscience and immature you are.
This PSA was brought to you by the letter F, for fuck you, and the number 1, because I’m better than you on any day.