My open letter PSA

I want to get serious for a moment.

I haven’t read what exactly was said about Kelly Clarkson, or what she said, but I saw the headline “She responds the fat shaming comments”.

Why are we fat shaming? I mean seriously, no person has to the right to down anyone else, myself included.

Since I love and trust you guys, I’m going to be real with you guys. I think I’ve mentioned being a big girl on here. I weigh 278. I’ve had the comments of “you’d be so much prettier if you lost weight”, “you are too young to have issues from obesity”, “you would be married by now if you lost weight”.

You know what? Fuck you. There are reasons for my weight. I can be an emotional eater at times, and anything can set it off. I have knee injuries from when I was I teen, that are effecting me now, and honestly, when I was smaller, I was told then, I was chubby. I don’t believe 135 was chubby. Never have, never will.

Here’s the thing, first person who is perfect, stand up and tell me what I should be doing. Yeah? Didn’t think so. I can fix my weight issues. Can you fix your stank ass personality? Can you fix the fact you are giving advice yet are alone?

Exactly. My point is, before you decide to ‘give advice’, check yourself first. No one of us our perfect, and I get that. I also know some medical professionals who aren’t so understanding either. Understand this, if you aren’t going to help the person lose it, shut the fuck up. You’re not help by saying ‘you’re clinically obese’.

Do you think fat people don’t know this? Please we know when we get dressed.

As for people who judge, or have nasty stuff to say, especially my skinnier counterparts, remember this, we can fix are fat issues. We are great people aside from that. Go eat a cheeseburger and remove yourself from my sight.

As a ‘plus size gal’ I get hit on just as much as you do. Why? because I’m fucking awesome, and I own that shit. Yes, I’m a work in progress in many ways, but what gets attention from others is I’m real about my issues. I don’t eat a salad and water when I go out, unless I want to. I’m not faking my hunger. If I want some wings and cheese fries, I’m getting it.

If you were a real female, you wouldn’t have to try hard. I don’t. Remember that before you fat shame. Remember, there are all kinds of reason a person could be overweight, and honestly it’s none of you fucking business.

To my big girls out there, stop taking it! Don’t be polite if someone is being ignorant about you being overweight. Rock the hell out of it! Let that person know, the mere fact you are so concerned with my weight thanks, but no one asked you. You don’t pay my bills, or live with me, so back off. We are trying but no one needs added pressure from others.

People please, really think about why you maybe ‘concerned’ with another’s weight. Show how self conscience and immature you are.

This PSA was brought to you by the letter F, for fuck you, and the number 1, because I’m better than you on any day.

You’re Welcome.

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14 Comments Add yours

  1. YES!!!! Get it girl!!! As a plus sizer myself I am feelin this on so many levels! Also, Kelly was a CHAMP in responding to that dumbass. She was all “clearly you talk bad because you don’t know me. I’m awesome!”


    1. csmommy2014 says:

      I’m saying! 😉


  2. I have said it before, and I will say it again. #DontJudgeMe #FatKidsUnite! I can give a flying fuck about size. (I’m a fatty) If I like you, then I like you. Stop judging people solely on looks people! ♡


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  3. Yes!! Thank you for stating it bluntly. I’m a fat chick and I give zero fucks about what someone else thinks of me. I’m 49 and too damn old to listen to that crap ever again. When I was in my 30’s and raising three kids, two of whom were thick girls, I realized my own body image had to change to help them. Now, all my kids will tell you they are beautiful. Well said, my friend.


    1. csmommy2014 says:

      No problem. I get tired of ya know. My eldest daughter is a beam pole but my youngest is curvy. I’m not shaming either one. I say rock that and own it. Your beautiful either way.


  4. jsackmom says:

    Oh CS Mommy I love you!!! Well said, written, and I’m in total agreement. I don’t get the fat shaming comments. It doesn’t better anyone to be so negative and unkind. Kelly Clarkson is awesome, she’s beautiful, talented, and glowing in the beauty of Morherhood. She’s happy, in love, and living a wonderful life. If we look in the mirror and see beauty just being God’s creatio then our parents did something right. Excellent post you rock. 😃❤️🎉


    1. csmommy2014 says:

      Preach. ❤❤❤

      Liked by 1 person

      1. jsackmom says:

        You know it doll. 😃❤️😃❤️😃❤️


  5. Melissa says:

    And this is why I love you!! 🙂 I too am fat #fatgirlsunite!! I used to always make jokes and put myself down before others could. I don’t do that anymore, because I love who I am and those who judge me based solely on my size can fuck off! Those people who love me are the ones I my life, the others can take a flying leap as far ass I ass concerned! 🙂 <3.


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  6. karenung77 says:

    Agreed. Fat shaming is horrible. I am against body shaming of all kinds. It’s just plain rude. I am average sized but get called “skinny bitch” or get comments like “look the skinny bitch is eating” as if I’m anorexic or something (which by the way would be the totally wrong thing to say to someone with an eating disorder!). The only time it’s ok to say something about someone’s appearance is if it’s something nice. : )


    1. csmommy2014 says:

      Exactly. Worry about you. It’s sad


  7. mommaduck007 says:

    ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤


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